I'm Starting A New Club! It's Called, "The New Years Resolution Indian Giver's Club." Wanna Join!

10,9,8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1...Happy New Year!! This is now the time for those pesky resolutions you promised yourself last year to kick in. Me personally, I do not indulge in or condone such behavior.
It is a vagrant excuse to perform all your habits without insult one more time before the ball drops.



Watch this video! Just magical isn't it. Now tell me, at this point in the night before the clock struck twelve, was there anything in your mind at all that was saying that you truly believe the hype that your gonna give up your old habits?

I promised my girlfriend that when I turn thirty years old, I'm going to give up smoking for good. That gives me two more precious years to enjoy the cool crisp flavor of a sweet, but strong menthol. But Like I said, It gives me two years! Plenty of take-off room to fly this addiction high up into the friendly sky's, and land in the vicinity of one less nicotine fiend island.

Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of people out there who make a conscious decision to stick to the script, and they do not break their resolution vow's. Also, there are plenty of folks out there with the same frame of mind I have about setting goals that we don't want to set; They may be goals that are set out of necessity, or more convience for those around you. Like the people you love dearly and you want to make them happy. An I know you probably thought, since I made the resolution's or promises to myself, I'm not hurting anyone if I break them. I mean, I wasn't being serious anyway! I was just stating them to make myself feel better. An to look forward to a better year, and of course a better life.

Now, I'm not one to stand there and point finger's, I am talking to myself here too. Think about it, when you make a declaration of the new year about something you know in your heart that your not going to change, then you are hurting someone. YOURSELF! You are lying to yourself...and that's a no, no. You are suppose to be your own most trusted friend and loyal advisor before anyone else, except god. So why would you, myself included, lie to yourself. You may be thinking well, it's not a big deal, or your blowing this crap way out of proportion, or damn chill out, you taken this just a little to serious aren't you...nah, hell no I'm not. This is merely a conversation for your mind. Mull it over. Do you think lying to yourself should be taken seriously? I want to know.

I'll make it simple for you, if you lie to yourself about minuscule things that you don't even mean or think is a big deal...then what else are you lying or hiding from yourself? Think about it.
Sometimes it can be the small things in life that can give you the biggest meaning to it. So watch what you say, again myself included. Don't just set goals on a whim..take the time to figure out what you are ready to accomplish and if you will be strong enough to do so. Get you some running room to get started, like my thirty-years old..quit smoking goal. Embrace the outside love from family and friends, and those close to you. If you pray, then do so. If you keep failing over and over again...Then keep trying! In the words of Dory from "Finding Nemo," Just Keep Swimming...Just Keep Swimming..Swimming...

Because getting your life on the bright and successful path...now that is a very big deal.

Till next time, stay true...and always be you! Deuces!
-Quinn a.k.a. Kinfeezy